Monday, March 4, 2019

The Art of Conversation


Conversation has a very broad meaning.  It can mean the gestures we use, our facial expressions and/or what we say.  Conversation can mean interactions with others or living together, not just talking.  When we are engaging in a real conversation in which a mutual exchange is occurring involving giving and taking, this is when we are truly together.  We can’t exchange something if they or we are not present.  We can talk to them or at them, but this is not a conversation.  A genuine conversation includes talking that involves regard for whether someone is listening.  We may have something to say and we say it but later on we find out that no one listened to what we had to say.  Words are precious.  Talking without being heard amounts to throwing the words in the wind.  We don’t communicate to be ignored or misunderstood.  If we take a look at our conversation style based on five elements, we may find valuable doors open and take us into more mindful and artful conversation. 

Be Present:  The part of the word conversation “con” mean together with.  If you want to have a conversation, be present, vigorously.  Since the value of conversation is in what all parties have given and/or gained, if we are not present nothing will be gained.

Think before you speak:  Take the time needed to design your language.  It is not how quickly or slowly you respond.  The value of what you say is the most important.  If no one in the conversation is offering anything of value, everyone will probably try to end the conversation. 

Make yourself heard:  Saying something valuable helps make for a great conversation.  Most of us love it when we are affected by what we hear, when words move us.  If you are not being heard, don’t blame your audience.  You will need to come up with something that engages them more.  Find out what others are interested in.  Build a bridge between you and others.

Be relational before being transactional:  Take time to develop the relational aspect of the conversation without solely focusing on the give and take of the conversation.  Build an opening for experiences by showing that you care. 

Enjoy yourself and let go:  A real exchange happens when all parties are enhanced by learning new things and feeling listened to.   Look forward to conversations and learn to enjoy yourself throughout the entire conversation, not just when you have a chance to speak.  You don’t live to get to the end of life.  Enjoyment is a choice and vital to having an artful conversation. 

Good listening mean mindful listening.  Listening takes a combination of intention and attention.  The intention part is having a genuine interest in the other person and what they have to say about their feelings, experiences, opinions, and needs.  The attention part is being able to stay present, open minded, and unbiased as you listen to the other’s words.   Being good at listening to others requires you to be able to listen to yourself.  If you can’t listen to your own beliefs, fears, and needs, you won’t be able to listen to others.  Here’s some pointers for tuning in:

Check inside:  “How am I feeling just now? Is there anything getting in the way of being present for the other person?  If something is in the way, make the decision to see if it needs to be addressed.

Feeling your own sense of presence, extend it to the other person with the intention to listen fully with an open mind. 

Silently note your own reactions as they arise including your thoughts, feelings, judgments, and memories as they arise.

Reflect back what you are hearing, using the speaker’s own words when possible or paraphrase using your own words to convey the meaning of what the speaker is trying to express.

Use friendly, open-ended questions to clarify your understanding and ask for more information.  Affirm before you question another’s opinion.  Acknowledging is not agreeing.  Make sure you understand what the other person is trying to convey before introducing your own opinions and ideas.

Having honest respectful and straightforward conversations can be satisfying for all parties.  Getting to know yourselves is pertinent before being able to understand the thoughts, feelings and beliefs of someone else.  It is vital to listen with intention and attention.  The word conversation has multiple meanings from being together to holding discussions.  A genuine conversation involves active listening which can open many doors. 

Alexander the Great




Alexander the Great ruled not only Macedonia, but Greece, Asia Minor and Egypt during his military career. He experienced his first victory at the age of 16. His phenomenal and creative military tactics and strategies have been used and studied for years after his untimely death. In the 15 years of conquests he never lost a battle, even when his armed forces were highly outnumbered.  Alexander’s life began in 356 BC, born to a wealthy family which included a mysterious mother, Olympias, and an ambitious father, Philip, who wanted to take over many countries and build a large empire. Alexander filled his father’s shoes after his death.  During his military career, he named more than 70 cities after himself and one city was named after his beloved horse, Bucephalus. For centuries many people claimed Alexander was a god who had godlike characteristics considering his amazing abilities on the battlefield and his well-known oratory skills. He was able to manipulate anyone with his golden tongue. Towards the end of his young life he also claimed he was a god and sought to be honored as such. Throughout much of his life his mother told him his father was Zeus. Philip’s ancestor was Hercules. However, Philip felt intimidated by his son’s fighting abilities and did not want to give Alexander credit for some of his successful campaigns. Philip and Alexander ended up joining forces, until Philip’s assassination, to enhance the already large kingdom.



            Zeus was a god who was highly regarded and worshipped by the Greek people. He was the king of the Olympian gods and was also referred to as the “Father.” He was considered the god of thunder and the “cloud-gatherer,” and believed to control the weather. Zeus provided signs and omens and was known to uphold justice. He guaranteed order concerning the gods and humanity as he sat on his seat on top of Mt. Olympus (Cartwright, 2013).



Philip and Olympias were married when she was barely 18. Olympias’ uncle and Olympias were on an island far from their homeland when Philip appeared on the same island. It was her uncle’s intention for them to meet. He wanted the two to wed to secure a relationship between the two kingdoms of Espirus and Macedonia. Olympias was from Espirus and Philip was the king of Macedonia. It was better to have a working relationship with Philip and his kingdom than it was to be conquered by Philip’s army. Philip found Olympias charming, intelligent, and beautiful and a possible mate who would produce a son that would be worthy of taking over his throne.

They wed soon after they met. After the wedding she was escorted from the reception ceremony to the bed chambers with Philip to carry out her most important duty. As they were being intimate, there was a chorus of maidens outside their door.

            Myths circulated about the wedding night. After they were asleep, thunder roared in the sky and a bolt of lightning came through the window and touched her womb without hurting her. Olympias swore that Zeus caused this to occur and Zeus ended up being the father of her unborn child.

           

            They were married for a couple of years and Philip visited his wife’s bed chamber in hopes that they could be intimate. He opened the door to her bed chamber and crept up to the bed she was sleeping on. He pulled the cover back and jumped back, startled by what he saw. Olympias was sleeping with a large snake. The snake’s head rested on his wife’s back. He covered the snake and her up again. He felt the situation was extremely eerie. He planned to never visit her room again. Alexander lay in his bassinet. A sweet little smile was on his face and he was cooing in his sleep. Philip patted his baby’s belly. He left the room, saddened and disturbed by what he discovered.



            Alexander did not grow up as a spoiled and pampered prince. From the day Alexander could walk, Philip began his training in the tenets of war. Philip’s highly skilled soldiers taught him archery, sword play and the handling and riding of horses. Almost every day Alexander would mount one of his favorite horses and ride across the Macedonian plains.

                Alexander’s first tutor, Leonidas, did not cut him any slack. He would make Alexander march through the night and then Alexander was given a light breakfast the next morning. Leonidas would search through Alexander’s belongings to make sure his mother did not give him any luxuries. When Alexander placed a large handful of incense on a ceremonial fire, he was chided for being so wasteful. When Alexander took over most of the Near East, his aged tutor was sent a shipment of frankincense and myrrh with a note informing his tutor that he did not have to be so miserly to the gods. Alexander actually cared deeply for his first tutor and considered him one of his fathers.

            Another tutor was Aristotle. Aristotle broadened Alexander’s mind in many areas from science to medicine. Alexander practiced medicine on various occasions. Under Aristotle’s tutelage he was shown the wonders of the universe. His attire and appearance were somewhat eccentric coupled with his audible lisp, his flashy rings and strange clothing. Alexander knew he was in the presence of a genius. Aristotle preached about the importance of forming close intimate relationships with men and informed Alexander that women could not be trusted. During Alexander’s and Philip’s lifetime in the Greek culture, homosexuality was widely accepted and encouraged. Philip and Alexander had many male lovers. Some of their lovers became jealous if they were intimate with others.

            As a child Philip was held hostage by the Thebans. He had the good fortune of living in the household of a general. While the other hostages feasted and tried to sway the girls in their favor, Philip was observing and learning the techniques of warfare from the Theban generals. The Thebans adopted the hoplite type of warfare. The soldiers were equipped with breastplates, greaves to protect their legs, and an iron tipped sword.  Each soldier carried an iron sword and a heavy shield which he carried in his left hand. Since the soldier’s right side was unprotected, he had to rely on the person to his right to protect him which created a strong sense of unity during battles. When a hoplite line advanced on the enemy, it presented a wall of death, a formidable force.

            Philip, when he became the king of Macedonia, decided he wanted a large army. Many of the men could not afford breastplates and other forms of armor so Philip came up with another plan. He decided to create longer spears. These spears were called sarissas and proved to be successful in battle. The soldiers would line up in sarissa spear formation which prevented the enemy from getting close to the Macedonian soldiers. Alexander also used sarissas in battle. The spears and shields were affordable which enhanced the size of the Macedonian army.

Not only did Philip establish a new kind of infantry, he coordinated a different kind of approach involving the foot soldiers and cavalry. He ordered the foot soldiers brandishing the sarissas to approach the enemy first before the cavalry to open up a gap in the front line of their opponents’ front line so the cavalry could ride through that opening and attack the undefended rear. Philip was the first in history to choreograph a team of highly trained infantry and cavalry.

One day Philip and Alexander were sitting in the stands watching the men corral and train the horses. A large black stallion was bucking and rearing. The horse was neighing loudly.

            “I think that horse is going to have to be released to the wild or put down. I don’t see how we can work with such a horse. What a shame, he is a handsome, strong stead,” said Philip.

            Alexander left the stand where they were sitting and he headed down to where the unruly horse was being held by reigns. Alexander noticed that the horse was fearful of the shadows. Alexander whispered in the horse’s ear about his fear of shadows and led him to a shaded area by large trees. He climbed on the horse’s back and rode off onto the plains at a fast clip. The onlookers including his father were amazed.

            Alexander was taught at an early age by his parents and tutors about how to manipulate others by amazing them with phenomenal feats of bravery and mystery. His mother with her friendship with large snakes, his father’s bravery during battles and sparing with others and Aristotle with his talks of his adventures and the adventures of others. He wanted to gain favor of his father and he managed to do so by his act of bravery with the horse. He named his horse Bucephalus. Bucephalus accompanied him when he fought against many of his adversaries in his effort to build one of the largest empires.



            “I am fed up with Alexander getting so much attention. He speaks and everyone listens. I speak and I have witnessed my men, with emphasis on mine, and they look towards him for his approval of what I am saying. They must respect me more,” stormed Philip. Philip also observed that  his men were paying more attention to Alexander when he was on the battle field.

            “I know he’s my son but I can’t afford to have him around anymore. I am losing face with my men,” said Philip.”

            “What do you want us to do?” asked Aeolus, an army commander.

            “I don’t want you to kill him or that crazy mother of his,” replied Philip.

            “Do you want them sent away?” asked Aeolus.

            “Yes, that would work,” replied Philip.

            “I will tell them to leave. I will take Keteus with me,” said Aeolus.

            “I have a better plan. Let’s tell them their lives are in danger and they have to leave immediately. We won’t go into any details but will insist that they must leave at once,” said Philip.

            “I like that idea. I will handle it right away,” said Aeolus.

            “Alexander, I need to meet with you and your mother,” said Aeolus.

            “What is this pertaining too?” inquired Alexander.

            “Your lives are in danger. One of the kings that your father has tried to take down has threatened to cause you and your mother harm. There may be a sneak attack. Your father thinks he may not be able to protect you,” replied Aeolus.

            “I will get my mother and we will come up with a plan on where to go,” replied Alexander.

            “Mother, Aeolus told me that our lives may be in danger and we need to leave immediately,” said Alexander.

            “I was told by Perdix, the soothsayer, that your father wanted us to leave. He feels threatened by the both of us. I believe it would be good for the both of us to leave him for a while,” said Olympias. A small snake was curled around her neck. The snake’s neck and head reached towards Alexander.

            “He likes you. Don’t act afraid of him. He wants to get to know you,” said Olympias.

            Alexander extended his arm and the snake wrapped around his arm. Olympias smiled when he petted the snake.

He looked into his mother’s eyes and felt mesmerized. He stared for a while at her eyes and thought he saw snake eyes. He blinked and looked again and her eyes looked like human eyes. She was smiling at him with a somewhat wicked grin.

Alexander and Olympias fled to Epirus for a year and then Alexander moved to Illyria for a while before he was invited back to Macedonia by his father. After approximately two years, Philip requested Alexander and Olympias return to Macedonia.



Philip had a lover named Pausanias. He was a young man in his teens who served as Philip’s royal page. His adolescence was giving way to manhood and Philip was losing interest in Pausanias. Philip turned his attention to a younger teen also named Pausanias. The first Pausanias was furious and his jealousy ran rampant. The first lover started nasty rumors about Philip’s new lover. He told others that he was a hermaphrodite and a slut who has slept with countless men and women. His new lover could not bear to hear such slander. The second Pausanias went to battle with Philip and served on the front lines against the Illyrians. He threw himself in the heart of the battle and in harms way. It cost him his life but he died a hero.

Meanwhile to get back at the first Pausanias, Philip had Attalus, one of his generals, play a nasty prank on the first Pausanias. At a feast, Attalus gave Pausanias a large amount of wine that was not watered down like the rest was for the others at the ceremony. Pausanias became very drunk. Attalus had many men including himself rape Pausanias. The next day when Pausanias came to, he heard the nasty talk about what happened to him the night before. He was humiliated and furious.

He knew he could not get back at Attalus because he was favored by Philip. Pausanias met with Alexander of Epirus and Philip’s daughter Cleopatra along with three friends who were also the king’s bodyguards to plan Philip’s assassination. Olympias promised Pausanias that a horse would be waiting for him so he could escape after he stabbed Philip.

Pausanias had hopes of being famous for killing the awful king and hated enemy of many. Perhaps statues would be erected in his honor. He was elated that he would carry out what many people only dreamed of doing.

The time finally arrived. Pausanias was a royal bodyguard and the court was familiar with him so they didn’t think anything of him being at the wedding ceremony that Philip was attending.

Philip was elated. He entered the theater for the marriage ceremony of his daughter Cleopatra to Alexander of Epirus. The marriage was an arrangement set up to seamlessly secure a relationship between the two kingdoms, Macedonia and Epirus. Philip was wearing an elegant white robe. The crowd was cheering and calling out his name. Alexander was walking alongside him. A son he became very proud of and knew he was worthy of running the kingdom when he was gone. Things were going very well. And then a sharp blade pierced through his skin and into his heart. Philip fell to the floor. Alexander was shocked as he stood over his father.

Pausanias ran out of the theater and towards the wooded area where the horse was supposed to be waiting for him. Things went incredibly wrong. He was attacked by the same guardsmen who said they would support him. He was stabbed to death.

Olympias and the crowd in attendance at the wedding hailed Alexander as the new king. Alexander was dumbfounded. At the age of 19, he became the king of the largest empire in the world.

           

            It was rumored that Olympias arranged the horse for Pausanias and encouraged him to fulfil his plan to kill Philip. She placed a golden crown on his head when he was on the cross. After he was brought down from the cross, she had a tomb erected for him next to Philip’s. Olympias struck her enemies like a viper. Months after Philip’s death and Alexander was away, she forced Cleopatra to commit suicide after she watched her infant daughter roasted to death in front of her. Cleopatra was a common name during that time period. She was not the “Cleopatra” of the Nile. When Alexander found out what his mother did, he was shocked but she was not punished for her evil actions.



            Serious trouble was afoot. Attalus wanted to oust Alexander from the throne. Attalus had recently married Parmenion’s daughter. Parmenion thought a son-in-law could be easily replaced. His future laid in supporting Alexander. Attalus was soon dead which came at a cost to Parmenion. That made Parmenion second in command in the campaign against Persia. Parmenion’s kinsmen filled every key post in Alexander’s army. Alexander wanted to be free of his dad’s old cronies but it looked like he was going to be stuck with Parmenion. He actually realized he needed Parmenion.

            To make the situation more favorable, he called upon some of his long-time friends who were exiled by Philip to help him with his future campaigns: Ptolemy, Nearchus, Harpalus and Erigyius. He knew they would be loyal to him in his war against Persia.

           

            Alexander often found himself in tough situations and he used his ingenuity to get himself out of these fixes. When he was deep in Illyrian territory, he found the Macedonian army surrounded by enemy soldiers in the valley behind them and the army of Glacias fortifying the city of Pellium to the front of them. If they stormed the walls of the city, they would be attacked from behind. He could not attack the city or defend himself against the encroaching enemy sneaking up behind them. His escape was thwarted and their food was running out. Alexander demonstrated his unconventional warfare. He knew he was outnumbered and had no chance for escape. He decided to put on a parade.

            The Illyrians in the hills behind him saw the king order his infantry to form a tight formation over a l00 lines deep. Each Macedonian foot soldier held his eighteen-foot sarissa before him. They were in complete silence awaiting orders. On signal they raised their spears to the sky without a sound. With concise choreography from endless practice, they swung their sarissas to the front as one unit, then to the right and then to the left. Alexander commanded them to march straight ahead without a word, then turned to each side in perfect formation.

            They continued to march toward the Illyrians. The Illyrians mesmerized by the show almost applauded Alexander in his command of his troops. The Illyrians were used to going into combat without structure or order. At Alexander’s signal the troops banged their spears against their shields and shouted a battle cry that would have woke the dead. The Illyrians were surprised and caught off guard. They ran away in terror which cleared the way for Alexander and his troops to escape.



            The Thebans earned a reputation of being ruthless murderers who razed and pillaged various communities. Stories passed down from one generation to the next involved towns being burned to the ground and the women violated by the Theban soldiers. Alexander wanted peace but his allies had something else in mind, revenge. Some of his allies came from Pataea, Orchomenus, and Thespieae, Those communities were ravaged by the Thebans in the past.

            Alexander waited outside the city gates for the Thebans to surrender. However, he was taken by surprise when some of the Theban soldiers bolted from the city gates and attacked his army. Some of his men lost their lives before the Thebans ran back inside the walls of Thebes.

            Alexander shouted, “Anyone who would like to surrender and join us in peace is more than welcomed to do so. I forgive you for the deaths of my soldiers.”

            A shout was returned, “Anyone who would like to escape Alexander’s tyranny is welcomed to enter the city.”

            Perdiccas beat Alexander to the punch. He was stationed by the southeast side of the city. Perdiccas saw an opportunity and charged into the city with his soldiers and another Macedonian battalion was close behind him. Alexander had no choice but to command his army to assault the city.

            The battle was brutal. Perdiccus rushed deep into the city and ended up being severely harmed. His troops saved him and brought him to one of the Macedonian doctors who saved his life. Theban soldiers hidden amongst the townspeople, sprung an attack on Alexander and his soldiers. Confused regarding their surroundings, they were taken off guard. Seventy of Alexander’s archers were slain immediately.

            Alexander had to think fast. He called the infantry to order and they marched in formation with sarissas and attacked the Thebans. This was a turning point for the Thebans. They were so horrified that they ran back into the city and in their unorganized rush they forgot to latch the gates. The Macedonian soldiers burst into the city and it was utter carnage. Every visible citizen of the city was killed maliciously. They went from house to house to conduct the extermination of Thebans. Some of the Macedonian soldiers rescued the soldiers that were held hostage in Cadmeia. Over six thousand Thebans died that day.

            Alexander pretended to be concerned when he addressed the League of Corinth regarding what would be done with the ruins of Thebes. He had every intention of razing the city after he was insulted, distributing the lands surrounding the city to his allies, and the Theban survivors were going to be sold into slavery.



            In 334 BC, Alexander began his war against Persia. He did not have enough money to pay his troops. The Macedonians did not want to contribute to what they felt was a huge mistake for Alexander. The Macedonian army numbered 50,000 men. Parmenion was waiting for Alexander in Asia with a few thousand soldiers. The Persians had far more men available at their disposal.

            To top off the large numbers of men that needed to be paid, a significant number of engineers, a staff of secretaries to handle the king’s correspondence, physicians, map makers, scientists were part of Alexander’s entourage. In addition, a nephew of Aristotle, Callisthenes, was the chief historian for the expedition. Alexander had a lot of mouths to feed.



            At the town of Elaeus, Alexander offered a sacrifice at the tomb of the hero Protesilaus. He prayed to the gods to guide and show favor during his stay in Asia. Alexander took his spear and stabbed the earth when he landed on the shore in Asia. Alexander was meticulous with his religious ceremonies. He sacrificed to Zeus, the patron of safe travels, and to Athena and his own ancestor Hercules. He was finally surrounded by the mythological landscape in Asia that he learned about while listening childhood stories.

            The Macedonians won the first battle at the Granicus River in Asia Minor in the spring of 334 BC. When the battle was over, Alexander now controlled all of the Asia Minor states at the loss of only 110 of his men. He advanced along the coastal road to Perga passing by the cliffs of Mount Climax.

           

            During Alexander’s down time, he would spend time organizing military affairs, responding to correspondence, or if there was time he would hunt with his friends. He loved to read from Greek works by Herodotus and Xenophon, Sophocles and Euripides or poets, with the exception of Homer.

            He was usually trying to enhance his skills in many areas such as archery and mounting and dismounting from moving chariots. He would finish his day by bathing the Greek way with anointing oils afterwards. He was fond of drinking wine in abundance. He loved flattery and would sometimes boast about some of his exploits.



            Alexander finally lined his pockets with the gold he needed to pay his army when he took over the city of Sardis which included a treasury full of Lyndian gold. The money would not last forever, but it allowed him to pay his men so they could continue on with additional campaigns. The acquisition of Sardis came easy for Alexander. Methrines, the ruler of Sardis, met with Alexander alone on the field outside of the city and turned over the city to Alexander, free and clear.

            Alexander entered the city as the new ruler and climbed to the top of the citadel. The view was spectacular. He could see the valley of Hermus. He thanked the gods that he did not have to fight against such a towering fortress. He ordered a temple to be built to honor Zeus.

           

He appointed various people to stay behind to manage the conquered cities. Sometimes the appointments would work out and sometimes they did not. He would assign a satrap (governor), commander of the citadel, someone to collect taxes and he left some troops to maintain order. Sometimes he would appoint the rulers who were in place before the siege to continue their reign. He did not interfere in a region’s religious practices. Sometimes he would embrace their practices. He gained a lot of respect from some of the conquered cities because of his leniency and his interest in their religious practices.

           

            The Macedonians approached the border of Caria. The former queen, Ada, an older woman, met Alexander on the road. She had a proposition for him. Alexander never had an affinity for women his age, but he did for older women. Ada welcomed Alexander and told him she could adopt him and make him her son. She would support him and he could allow her to return to the throne. The adoption would give legitimacy to the Carians.

            “Join me Alexander as I dine tonight. I would love to hear about your travels,” said Ada.

            Ada grew quite fond of Alexander.

            “I am longing for a son. I lost my son in battle years ago. Would you like to be my son?” asked Ada. He did not respond to her previous request.

Alexander readily agreed. His newly acquired mother, Ada, was restored to the throne as their queen which was her rightful place. Representatives from other towns throughout the kingdom were arriving at Alexander’s camp bearing golden crowns and promises of their allegiance to Alexander. Ada spoiled her new son by sending delicacies from her own kitchen to his tent daily.

           

            The Persians and Macedonians came to blows in the battle of Issus. Despite the enemy’s advantage in numbers, Alexander’s creative and efficient battle formations and tactics sent the Persians running away and Darius had to flee from the battlefield. The two then faced off in the  battle of Gaugamela where around 200,000 infantry and 34,000 cavalry led by Darius went against the Macedonians, who only had approximately 50,000 soldiers. Again, the Macedonian army put their warfare abilities to good use insuring the defeat and inevitable fall of the Persian Empire. 



            The plains of Cilicia, steaming with overwhelming heat, hit the Macedonians like an oven. Alexander stripped off his clothes and jumped in the Cydnus River. The river was fed by melting snow. Alexander’s arms and legs began to cramp and the cold penetrated into his bones. His friends carried him from the water. He became very sick, possibly afflicted with bronchial infection or malaria. It was touch and go for the next few days. Philip from the land of Acarnania in Greece was his physician since he was a boy. Philip suggested a potion that would cause Alexander to go through a purge, making him sicker before it made him better.

            Greek medicine was based on balance of the body’s fluids: blood, yellow bile, black bile, and phlegm. If a person had too much of any of these fluids the person would be off balance. The king knew he had to become well quickly, the Macedonians were counting on him. He received a note from Parmenion warning him of Philip which stated that Darius paid him to kill Alexander. The old general would be the next choice as the army leader and possibly the next king. Philip was unaware of Parmenion’s message so he approached Alexander again to seek his permission to provide the potion. He took the cup from Philip and began drinking the potion while at the same time handing the note from Parmenion to Philip. Philip’s face did not change which answered Alexander’s question. In three days Alexander walked out of his tent healed from his ailment. He was met with cheers from the Macedonian army.



Because of the defeat at Issus, Alexander had plenty of gold in his pockets. Alexander had no trouble recruiting troops from Greece. The king loaded all his troops on board his fleet of ships and they set sail for Tyre.  Naval warfare was new to Alexander, but he took to it like a pro. The Tyrians were given word about their approach but did not fear the arrival of the Macedonians. However, they did not expect 200 warships approaching their city. The Tyrian fleet retreated into a protected harbor. The Tyrians blocked the harbor with three of their ships. Alexander could not break through the barrier as much as he tried.

Part of Alexander’s crew worked diligently to build a causeway. When they got close the island, the Tyrians sent a ship that was on fire towards the causeway and much of the causeway was destroyed. Instead of feeling beaten, they built protective towers and began repairing the damage and continued to finish building the causeway. The Tyrians, good at battle and defense, shot flaming arrows and heated shields filled with sand that they sent down on the Macedonians. The hot sand worked its way through the breastplates of the soldiers. They had to stop wearing their armor which made them targets for the Tyrian archers. Some threw down fishing nets to trap Alexander’s men. Divers were sent to cut the ropes of the ships. Alexander ordered metal chains to be used. They were busy night and day trying to thwart the Macedonian army. It’s been almost six months and with no success with the Tyrian forces.

Finally reaching his limit, Alexander instructed his army to attack various spots on the walls of the Tyrian fortress. The Tyrians would not know where to protect their fortress. A battering ram finally broke a hole in the wall. The assault squad was led into the opening. Admetus, an officer, was the first to enter and he was murdered immediately. The men continued to pour into the hole. The harbors were unblocked which led to the heart of the city. Alexander was the first to be on top of the walls of the city. The rest of the army moved down the causeway and entered the city. The massacre was horrendous. After seven months of trying to take over the town and their frustration of losing their friends who were killed in various ways by the Tyrians, they were fed up. Thousands of Tyrians lost their lives. The city was taken and funerals were conducted for the many Macedonians who died during the siege. Alexander walked to the center of the city and offered a sacrifice at the temple of Hercules.

Mazaces was the ruler of Egypt. His predecessor, Sabaces, had fought at Issus the previous year and most of the army had died during the battle. Mazaces had no means of protecting and fighting against Alexander’s army so he quietly turned over the entire province of Egypt to Alexander without a fight. Alexander decided his best approach to winning over the Egyptians was to accept and honor their gods and respect their religious practices. He began his journey of exploration along the Nile River. Part of his fleet was sent up the Nile while he marched through the endless plains of the Nile delta. They marched on the right of the delta and the barren desert was on the left. The delta was filled with wheat and barley fields, fig trees, cattle and fishermen. There were vast stands of papyrus that was used to make so many things from writing materials to boats. Alexander marveled at the pyramids and temples. He visited the Saqqara pyramid in Memphis and learned that this was one of the first built in Egypt.

Alexander visited the Giza plateau. Three of the greatest pyramids nestled on top of the plateau served as a reminder of the ingenuity of the ancient Egyptians. The inside of the pyramids was lined in granite, a great conductor of sound. Tunnels where water could flow through were situated at the depths of the bottom of the pyramids. The sphinx stood watch over the kingdom for thousands of years. Antipater, his spiritual guide, filled Alexander in on the purpose of the grand pyramids and sphinx. Alexander was in his glory when he was exploring the magnificent mysterious wonders.

Alexander approached the temple of Ptah and offered abundant sacrifices to the god. His goal was to show up the Persian ruler when he did not show any respect for their sacred monuments during their take over. The priests, in observance of Alexander’s respect and the giving of gifts, recommended he be crowned as the pharaoh of Egypt. Statues of the king of Egypt represented Alexander dressed as the lord of  Upper and Lower Egypt. The inscriptions on the statues refer to him as celebrating and honoring Ra, son of Amun. To bring in his new status as the king of Egypt, he organized a fanfare and called in the most famous athletes and musicians from Greece to meet him in Memphis. A great party was held to celebrate the new king. Egyptians and Macedonians feasted and drank. They watched and cheered on races and wrestling contests, enjoyed comedies and tragedies, and listened to fine music for three days. The Egyptians were happy to have the Persians expelled from their country and Alexander was the person who made that happen. They were free now to run the country as they saw fit with one loose end.

Hegelochus delivered to Alexander the aristocrats who sided with Darius from Chios and Lesbos. He quickly decided their fate. The aristocrats from Lesbos were sent home to be judged. They were tortured and killed. The aristocrats from Chios were condemned to live out their lives on the tiny island of Elephantine in the middle of the Nile River at the southern border of Egypt. They were assigned the job of observing the Nilometer and measuring the time the river rose and fell every year for the rest of their lives. 

Alexander was exploring the north shore near Egypt. He came across what he thought was an oasis. An uncharted plot of land was nestled along the Nile. The grass was green, the papyrus growing on the water’s edge towered over him, and large banana trees were growing as far as he could see. He picked a banana and sat on the sandy bank. He called one of his men over to him to discuss plans for the area.

“I want to erect a city in this location,” expressed Alexander.

“It does appear to be abundant with resources. Look at all those banana trees,” replied Eumenes, one of Alexander’s officers.

Alexander handed Eumenes a banana. He ate the banana and replied, “The banana is delicious.”

“I want to name the city Alexandria,” said Alexander.

Alexander ordered a select group of men from his army to stay in the area to build the city and populate it. Alexander found the land where the new city was going to be erected a wonderful location to build a profitable harbor. The soil was rich and would support agriculture. Lumber would have to be shipped in to build homes. Alexander had fond recollections of the neighboring villages and thought the villagers would be more than happy to move to such a grand location.



Alexander hauled a portion of his troops through the deserts for miles. The travelers thought they were going to starve or die from thirst between each oasis. Alexander and his troops finally arrived at the luscious abode of Siwa. The drawing point of Siwa was the “Spring of the Sun” described in the works of Herodotus. Alexander climbed the citadel and entered the sanctuary of the great god Ammon. The high priest awaited his arrival and welcomed him into the sanctuary. Alexander had questions for the high priest. The first question encompassed the death of his father and he wanted to know if all the people who were involved in his father’s death met their deserved demise. The priest assured him that all guilty parties answered for his father’s death. Another question comprised of his wondering about who his actual father was, was it Philip or Zeus. The response was “Your father is not human.” Alexander took that response as a yes, that Zeus was his father. The meeting with the priest changed him profoundly. He believed he was sired by the mighty god Zeus. Destined to rule the world, he needed to continue his conquests (Freeman, 2011).



            On his way to Babylon, not using a direct route, Darius intercepted Alexander in a pivotal battle that was fought on October 31, 331 BC in Gaugamela. Alexander’s forces defeated the Persians. The Persians, who were chased for approximately 35 miles, ended up escaping with Darius and his Bactrian cavalry and Greek mercenaries.

            Alexander occupied Babylon. Mazaeus surrendered the kingdom to Alexander. Mazaeus and a Macedonian commander were placed in charge of the kingdom. The local priests were supported and respected by Alexander which gained him a purse of 50,000 gold talents. Alexander had conquered the Mediterranean provinces and Mesopotamia and claimed these areas as part of his empire. However, the heart of Persia and the provinces to the east still laid unconquered.

Alexander and his armed forces traveled over the treacherous Zagros range and tried to enter the Persia city of Percepolis. He lost some men and to save face he left the gate area and attacked various other areas of the fortress. Some of the men finally broke through one of the walls of the fortress and entered the city. The city was ransacked and the residents were massacred. Some of the Persian soldiers were hiding amongst the residents’ homes. The Macedonians were taken by surprise by the hidden soldiers and a carefully orchestrated ambush by the Persians. The loss of Alexander’s men was nominal compared to the losses the Persians suffered. Alexander, coerced into believing the Xerxes temple needed to be destroyed, followed suit with doing so. However, he regretted that decision later.

Meanwhile, Alexander, while he stayed in the city of Percepolis, started dressing like the Persians. He started entertaining the idea of joining the Persians and having a joint rule of the land the Persians had ruled before the take over and the Macedonian empire. He told his men that the Persians and Macedonians could join forces and share the rule of all the land that was taken over by the Macedonians. His followers frowned and looked at him as if he was a crazed man. They started rebelling against Alexander. A mutiny was forming. He decided to drop the idea and switch to the Macedonian attire. His bizarre thoughts were soon forgotten when they began their journey to Bactria.

            Alexander discovered that Darius was stabbed by Bessus.  Bessus took on the name of the Great King, replacing Darius. He also killed the two slaves and mutilated the horses that were pulling the wagon that Darius was riding in. As a result of these actions, Alexander realized the war was not over. He stood over the horses and wondered how anyone could harm helpless animals. He was not concerned about the deaths of the slaves and mourned the fact that Darius would not be taken as captive by Alexander (Freeman, 2011).

            Alexander went after the Oxyartes and the remaining moguls. Some of the captives who were held during this campaign became loyal followers of Alexander or were killed. One of the captives was the lovely Roxana, who Alexander fell in love with at first sight. As a sign of good will, Alexander married her. She ended up being his nemesis later on (Britannica, ND) .

            Alexander continued east conquering one city after the next. He ended back in Babylon, a place he called home. He studied the various religions and was especially interested in the religion that was practiced in India. He thought about becoming a Budha and then Hinduism caught his eye. The Hindu’s told him that he was too busy conquering the world. One day he would die and the only land he owned was the land in which his bones rested.



In May of 323 BC he returned to Baghdad after years of campaigning all over Asia. On May 29, while making plans for his next conquests, he went to a dinner party thrown by one of his close friends. After a long session of heavy drinking, he started to feel unwell and went to bed with a fever.

His condition further deteriorated after a few days as the fever took hold of his body. Finally, on the 10th day after he fell sick, one of the most well-known conquerors in human history died at an early age of 32. His untimely death caused a lot of suspicion. Antipater and Antipater’s son Cassander were viewed as possible culprits. Some speculated that Aristotle might have poisoned Alexander. The modern medical experts attribute his death to malarial infection or other maladies that may have befallen Alexander during his many exploits.

His first victory occurred at age of 16 while fighting under the command of his father, which led to the historical victories against the mighty Persians and many formidable Asian nations and settlements. Alexander made a name for himself as a mighty conqueror, who ended up either being revered as a military leader or hated by his many enemies. He never lost a battle during his numerous campaigns which gives a testament to his military abilities. His empire  stretched from the Mediterranean to the Indian Ocean.

Alexander the Great performed as a great tactician concerning his military abilities. His creative and skillful approach to many difficult situations pulled him and his army out of harms way and led him down a path of continuous successful campaigns. His possible link to Zeus and Hercules may have given him the edge he needed to be a successful warrior in battle. Alexander learned from the multiple cultures he conquered and bits and pieces of the Hellinistic culture was spread thoughout much of the Asian and Indian population.








Dangerous Liaisons (Psychic Vampires)


Janelle lay gasping on the floor after her friend left. “What’s wrong with me? I don’t have enough energy to get up and move to my bed.”

She spent the evening with Helen on the sofa watching scary movies and Janelle asked Helen, to leave because she wasn’t feeling good. She felt fine before Helen arrived at her home and now she was drained of every ounce of energy. She could barely lift her head up. She fell asleep in the doorway. The next day, when Janelle did not show up for work, Pete stopped by her home to see if she was okay. He was shocked to find her sleeping in the doorway of her bedroom. He called an ambulance. She was rushed to the hospital.

“Can you tell me what your symptoms are?” asked the emergency doctor.

Talking for Janelle, Pete said, “I found her in the doorway of her bedroom. She was sleeping. When I tried to wake her, she was unresponsive at first. Janelle had difficulty moving. I had to lift her onto her bed. She did not have the strength to do so herself.”

“Can you tell me if you have taken any pills or have eaten something that may have had this affect on you?” asked the doctor, his name is Dr. Jefferson.

Janelle responded weakly, “I do not take any pills. I had a glass of wine with my friend when we were watching television together. I had a grilled cheese sandwich for dinner and an apple.”

Janelle grabbed her abdomen and cried out in pain. She was having gastrointestinal problems.

“Do you have normal bowel movements?” asked Dr. Jefferson. He knew that gastrointestinal problems can be painful for the patient. He was wondering what was linked to the extreme tiredness. He was hopeful he would get to the bottom of things.

“I may have diarrhea some days and be constipated on other days. I luck out and seem to be normal for a few days and then I am back to the diarrhea and constipation.,” responded Janelle.

“Sounds like you may have irritable bowel syndrome,” replied Dr. Jefferson.

Dr. Jefferson ordered an MRI to examine Janelle’s stomach and intestinal tract.

On the way to the room with the MRI machine Janelle threw up on the gurney. The attending nurses were alarmed and concerned. They cleaned her up and the gurney before the MRI procedure.

“Dr. Jefferson, Janelle, your new patient is not doing well. She threw up before the MRI. She is really sick,” reported Nora, one of the attending nurses.

“Let’s hope we get to the bottom of things. I am concerned about the extreme tiredness. Only run into this a couple of times.”

Helen and some of Janelle’s family were waiting in the waiting room to hear what was going on with Janelle.

Perhaps I went to far. I really care about Janelle but I do need to feed off other people. My energy is so low and if I don’t feed I feel like I am in such a state. I can’t hardly function.

Helen is a psychic vampire. She has been feeding off of Janelle for years. She convinced Janelle to let her move in with her. That made things easier for Helen. After a while Janelle started accepting that she was tired a lot and thought she wasn’t getting enough sleep. She started becoming more and more irritable and moody which is a side effect of being a host to a psychic vampire. Janelle also began experiencing sleep disturbances, anxiety issues, and impaired memory. Janelle ended up suffering from gastrointestinal problems and other victims will end up with upper respiratory problems, also. If hosts are fed on a lot, their energy systems can be damaged severely. 

Helen continued to feed off Janelle’s energy source until she found another host, her unsuspecting boyfriend, Fred.

A common characteristic of all psychic vampires is that they feel they are superior to others and look down on their hosts and others.





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George was climbing to the top of the corporate ladder rather quickly. He possessed many useful tools to enable him to do so. When he fed on people that left them exhausted and unable to concentrate so he appeared to have it together more than his peers. George was charming and could manipulate people’s minds to do his bidding. He lacked the necessary skills to run the agency, but managed to have everyone believe in him when he filled his supervisory position.

“Nice work, George,” said Jared, the CEO of Galaxy Corporation. They were the leading company in designing specialized computer programs for top of the line business organizations. George’s inflated ego led him to believe that it was up to him to maintain the corporation’s status, nobody else.

Jared was actually the person who led the corporation to the top of the corporate world with his business and knowledge of computer software. Jared graduated at the top of his class at the University of Texas in computer technology and business management and went on to earn a doctorate in computer technology.

George struggled to get his bachelors degree from a small university in Michigan. He was too busy partying to study. George’s father stopped paying for George’s college when it appeared that he was not going to get his degree. George built up an extensive student loan debt that he begrudgingly paid on a monthly basis. He hasn’t talked with his father for almost ten years.

“Samantha, would you like to go to dinner tonight?” asked George.

“Yes, I would,” replied Samantha. She looked at George with dreamy eyes. George manipulated Samantha to fall head over heels for him.

George was approximately five feet, nine inches in height, but his insecurities made him add lifts to his shoes so he appeared taller than he was. Samantha made him feel better about himself because she was only five feet, two inches in height. He felt he towered over her.  Many people who fall under the category of being pathologically narcissistic are actually insecure but come across as haughty and self-assured.

George started dating Samantha a year ago. Samantha was looking for someone to settle down with, but George was not in any rush to tie the knot or even get engaged. He tapped into energy when he felt pinched to do so, but usually liked to have her not depleted to a large degree. Many other people fell victim to his parasitic feeding. Again, he felt it behooved him to feed off his work peers to make himself appear more together.

A business meeting was held with George, other supervisors, the CEO and the CFO. It was their annual strategic planning meeting. Many of George’s peers were yawning. He fed off each of his peers, one at a time during the early morning hours. They came to work extremely tired like they didn’t have any sleep the night before.

George looked across at Louie, another supervisor and discovered that Louie was trying to attaching a vine to him so he could feed off of him. George glared at Louie and gave him a knowing look relaying that he knew what he was up to. Louie was surprised that he got caught. It was discovered that two psychic vampires worked for the corporation. Many of the other employees, who were sitting around the table, were yawning and stretching except Jared. Both psychic vampires wanted to leave Jared’s energy alone. They only worked on manipulating Jared’s mind.

Jared looked around the table and became frustrated to see so many tired employees. How was he going to conduct business?

“Let’s pull out the budget report that everyone has in front of them. As you see, our earnings for 2017 went up across the board by 25%.  I can speak for the majority of us who can stay awake that this is good news. However, our earnings for this year appears to be more than in 2017 and the year is only half over. I am happy to report that we are on the right track,” said Jared.

            Jared poured himself another cup of coffee. He said, “I attribute our high rate of growth to two of our supervisors, Louie and George. Without them on our team, we would not be doing as well.”

            “Let’s give them a hand,” said Jared. Everyone clapped around the table. Since Louie and George were in need of constant admiration, this complement filled the empty spot in their psyche, momentarily.

            George winked at Samantha.

Louie winked at Grace, his long-time girlfriend. She had an interview with the human resource department for Louie for a possible position at Galaxy. He did the rest. Louie saw a potential to climb the ladder at Galaxy.

Both women smiled proudly at the men in their lives.

Louie came on board with the Galaxy Corporation approximately a year ago. George was just getting around to feeding off of Louie. Discovering that Louie was like him made him feel threatened. He would have competition with pursuing the CEO’s position. It would not be handed to him on a silver platter.

Louie was home one evening relaxing on his sofa in front of a Met’s game. He dreamily thought of his former girlfriend, Violet. Violet was a practicing witch who practiced black magic and was a Satan worshipper. Louie was enthralled with her abilities. She taught him how to have tantric sex with unsuspecting and suspecting individuals. Violet, Louie and some of their friends would conduct orgies in local establishments. Some of the participants did not know what was happening to them. They would feed off the sexual energy.

Louie contacted Violet telepathically hoping she was available to participate in tantric sex with him.

“I’m available, you tiger,” said Violet telepathically.

Then pleased each other for hours into the wee hours of the morning.



Louie and George were in competition for the CEO’s position. The CEO was going to retire within a year and the position would be open. Louie started working overtime and turning in assignments that were above and beyond his pay scale. Jared, impressed with Louie’s achievements, was considering Louie for the position of CEO.

“I want to talk to you, Louie. Can you come into my office?” asked Jared.

“Yes. I will be right there,” replied Louie.

“I have been thinking long and hard about the future of this corporation. I would like to suggest to our board of directors that you be considered for my position.”

“I would be honored to fill your shoes. I wish you were not leaving us. I enjoy working with you,” said Louie. He could brown nose with the best of them.

George wanted to be in line for the CEO position but one of his character flaws was his extreme laziness. He was not willing to work overtime to gain favor with Jared. Louie was willing to work day and night if it meant he could climb the ladder to the top. Louie also graduated top in his class in business management at Stanford. Not as narcissistic as George. Louie knew he had to work for what he got in life. Some psychic vampires would fall into the category of being pathologically narcissistic. Some psychic vampires have other issues they have to deal with and the people around them were forced to deal with their issues, also.

Many psychic vampires were raised in depravity, either neglect and/or abuse. They ended up in adulthood not knowing which way to turn like many other individuals. They usually experience a stunted growth in their development. They do not learn how to self sooth. They rely on others to fix things for them and then they discover the ability to feed off others’ energy and become addicted to doing so. It makes them feel superior and in control. They used this ability to fill the emptiness in their lives and they discovered that they actually needed to be nourished with another’s energy. One psychic vampire reported that he had holes in his energy system and needed to continually fill his system with another’s energy.

Or could these individuals be born to a hybrid parent(s)? Parents who were associated with a demonic heritage. The Nephilim were not entirely wiped off the face of the earth by a flood. Not possible. We could still be dealing with hybrid individuals derived from a demonic race. Remember demons were fallen angels that still roam the earth. They were banned from the heavens and do not have God’s grace anymore. They are angry and spiteful beings. If individuals are born without souls or they gave up their souls to demons, they may need to feed off another’s energy field.





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          The Saturn Corporation’s CEO and board of directors were seeking individuals like themselves. Individuals who could look someone in the face and demand unreasonable things and cause harm to the environment without batting an eyelash. Every year they would rather pay the fine for not meeting environmental standards than to fix the problem. They felt it was easier to through money at the state and continue carrying out business as usual. This corporation is an example of global psychic vampirism. It does occur throughout the world. Compromised environments effect many people. Look what happened in Flint, Michigan. Who cared enough to make sure the people of Flint, including children, had safe water to drank. Many children have suffered from lead poisoning from a lack of concern for the welfare of the community. We are faced with problems that prove to be damaging on a regular basis.

          “Hi, my name is Greg Hathaway. I was told to stop by and see if I could apply for a job at this organization.”

          “Where did you hear about the position?” asked Henry Stonehouse, the human resource director.

          “Sam Hill told me about the job,” replied Greg.

          That’s all Henry had to hear. Sam was a big part of the company’s mission and fell into favor with the CEO and board of directors.

          “Follow me and I will have you fill out the employment paperwork. Do you have your driver’s license and social security on hand so I can make a copy?” asked Henry.

          “Here they are,” said Greg. He handed Henry the documents.

          “Sharona, escort Greg to the conference room and sit with him while he fills out the paperwork just in case he has any questions. You don’t mind if Sharona sits with you while you complete the paperwork?” asked Henry.

          Sharona was a tall, slender woman with silky blond hair who appeared to be in her late twenties, a very attractive woman.

          “I don’t mind at all,” replied Greg.

          “Would you get Greg a cup of coffee?” asked Henry.

           “What do you want in your coffee?” asked Sharona.

          “I take it black.”  Greg watched Sharona walk out of the room. He loved the soft movement of her hips. She looked back at him and caught him in the act and smiled at him. She was used to getting that kind of attention while at work.

         

          “We have a policy of making as much money as possible at this corporation. Our goal is to satisfy our stockholders and line our own pockets. Are you on board to do your best to make the most money possible?” asked Larry Ludster. Larry was a human resource employee who ran the interviews for perspective employees.

          “I believe we have an obligation to earn the most money possible,” responded Greg.

          “Tell us about some of the projects you worked on with other organizations. We want to hear from you. By the way, nice resume.”

          “I worked with Jupiter when they wanted to mine uranian and managed to sidestep the Hopi Indians when they tried to stop us. The mining is still going on today without Hopi interference.”

          “I heard under the table that a few Hopi’s lost their lives. They were found dead in one of the caves,” said Larry.

          “Yes, that was some of my handy work. You would be surprised how Indian people will turn on each other for a few bucks and a little mind control,” said Greg.

          “I feel like you are perfect for our team. When can you start?” asked Larry.

           “I can start next week,” said Greg.

          “I already gave my four-week notice almost a month ago because I was told by Sam that I would probably be a shoe in.”

           Many psychic vampires feed off the misery and anguish of their victims. They create hardship because there is energy in feelings of hopelessness and despair. Greed is a deciding factor when it comes to how people are treated. The bottom line for a lot of companies is to make as much money as possible no matter who has to pay. The health of many have suffered due to the damage that has been done to the environment.

         

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       “Elsie is looking pretty appealing. Can’t wait to munch on her energy. Perhaps I will make her so tired she collapses in my arms from exhaustion. The cheerleaders I treated myself to this morning were great. I have to feed in order to feel alive. I must feed tonight after I am finished with Elsie. I can never have too much energy,” said Wally.

          Addictive Psychic Vampires have insatiable appetites for feeding off unsuspecting people. They must have continuous fixes. Once they feed off one person, they plan the next. Sometimes they are planning their next feed while they are feeding off someone. There is a sense of urgency to feed with all psychic vampires, but ones with addictive characteristics are excessive, indiscriminate about their selections, and enjoy the excitement and challenge of their conquests. Like alcoholics, drug addicts and overeaters, they experience intense cravings. They must feed excessively.

          “Elsie, would you like to settle on my sofa and watch a movie?” asked Wally.

          “I would like that. All of a sudden, I am really tired. I have to warn you, I may fall asleep on you.”

          “That’s okay.”

          Wally is an attractive man. He has sandy colored hair, stunning blue eyes, broad shoulders and is over six feet tall. Many women are attracted to him. Because of his popularity, he never wanted to settle down. He went from one woman to the next. He swings both ways and some very handsome men were into him, also. He craved attention, loved being the center of attention. He is also very charming and had an alluring personality.

          Elsie was also gorgeous and was very attracted to Wally. She was trying to get pregnant so she could trap Wally. He was on to her and always packed protection. Reading minds was another ability Wally possessed. He liked the advantage it gave him.

           She fell asleep in his arms. He peeked down her shirt and started undressing her carefully so he would not wake her. Elsie was completely naked. Wally stared at her naked body and started getting aroused. He climbed on top of her and had his way with her. She moaned in her sleep. He put one of his t-shirts on her and carried her off to his bed. He had to leave and find another host soon. He felt the rush from Elsie’s energy wearing off.  He needed another fix.

          He decided to visit a playground and feed off some of the children who were playing. He enjoyed children’s energy. Nothing like the untainted burst of pureness rushing through his system. Wally was in luck. There were lots of kids and parents at the playground. He picked a little girl, she appeared to be around six years of age, cute and petite. Her red hair in two braids and she was wearing a t-shirt and shorts. Wally concentrated and sent a long invisible vine that attached to her body and started taking deep breaths. Her life energy was as pure as the driven snow. He was smiling as she started rubbing her eyes.  She walked over to her mother and asked if she could go home.

          Wally was pumped and wanted to seek more unsuspecting victims. He decided he wanted to go to a gay bar and check out the men. It’s been awhile since he experienced the other side of the buffet.

          He was in luck the bar was busy. Lots of gay women and men. Everyone turned to look at Wally when he walked into the bar, women and men. He felt like he was on top of the world. Filled with the sweet energy of a child and looking for the right male to share some of the early evening with. A young man was dancing in a way to draw attention to himself. He was not wearing a shirt and his pants were hanging low on his backside. Wally thought he was very sexy and geared his attention on the young man. It did not take long for the young man to notice Wally. There was a connection right away.

          “Hi, what’s your name?” asked John, the young man.

          “My name is Wayne,” replied Wally. Wally did not like to use his real name when he was picking up someone for a one-night stand.

          “Let’s go to the other room and dance,” suggested John.

          “I am not at a fair advantage. What is you name?” asked Wally.

          “My name is John.”

          “Well, John let’s get some dancing on,” replied Wally.

          Wally always found it interesting to see how easy it was to pick up young men. They wanted attention like all the women he has encountered.

          The dancing was seductive and Wally was starting to feel woozy from the alcohol he was drinking. It was time to take John to a hotel room.

          Wally needed some fresh air to clear his head from the alcohol. He took John on a short walk around the city streets before departing for a hotel. John eagerly climbed into Wally’s BMW and smiled widely at Wally.

          Wally used a credit card he stole off an older woman to pay for a hotel room. The sex was great and Wally fed off John’s sexual energy.



          The psychic vampire who has addiction issues is a lot like someone with antisocial tendencies. They use people to get what they want without consideration of the person’s feelings. Anyone with the monkey on their back called addictions, cannot love someone else or even themselves. The addiction runs their lives and comes before people. Think about an alcoholic, he/she must drink even at the expense of a relationship or employment. When an individual has one addiction, usually the individual has other addictions. Wally was also a sexual addict. He had to stroke his need for admiration by seeking many lovers and he thoroughly enjoyed the conquest.

          The antisocial psychic vampire would be more ruthless concerning the basic rights of other people. They have been known to have a history of violating rules, bullying and not telling the truth. They would not feel remorse if they hurt or killed someone. It would be the other person’s fault because they made the antisocial angry or they were in the wrong place at the wrong time.

          The psychic vampire who is considered having schizoid personality disorder is a whole different type of vampire in contrast to the antisocial and narcissistic vampires. They are withdrawn and prefer to be emotionally distant. They are usually loners who can appear to be cold. The schizoid vampires are uncomfortable in social situations except during their vampire episodes.

          The socialized psychic vampire is quite different from all the previously mentioned vampires.  On the surface they appear to respect the rights of others. They can be supportive and understanding in most relationships. Socially skilled vampires present themselves as someone who can be trusted and responsible.  They appear emotionally stable. Like the others they are not reluctant to drain the energy of their conquests. Socialized vampires can be defensive when it comes to their vampire tendencies and will minimize the effect of their vampire conquests. They refer to their vampire encounters as harmless.

          The internet has connected psychic vampires to their hosts. The internet serves as a pipe that is used to draw energy. Cyberspace is a safe way for psychic vampires can feed off hosts and maintain their anonymity. Most psychic vampires seek attention and cyber vampires are not any different. They will drop hints at what they are up to such as using a name that starts with the letter V. Experienced cyber vampires like to hint at self-disclosure as part of adding excitement to the conquest.

            Some of the psychic vampires are unexperienced and feel insecure and may feel some stress regarding their need to feed. They want to feel independent and not have to rely on another’s energy to get by in life. They will feel reluctant and feel remorse, but they feel there is no alternative than to feed off others to meet their energy needs (Slate, 2002).

          Many types of psychic vampires exist and they all have the same determined need, they need to feed on others and drain their energy in order to survive. If the host is fed on for an unspecified period of time, they can have emotionally disturbing complications such as anxiety and sleep disorders. They may have physical problems such as gastrointestinal and upper respiratory ailments as a result of serving as a host for psychic vampires. As mentioned earlier, there could be various reasons why they need to feed on the energy of others from having a demonic origin (Nephillim descendants) to having holes in their own personal energy fields. Having the ability to feed off others without them knowing seems to have evil origins. Many people are being watched, stalked and sought after by psychic vampires and the liaison can be very harmful and dangerous.