Most time management approaches cover the importance of productivity in the workplace. However, it is essential to manage time that allows us enjoyment, balance and also self-enhancement. “Burnout” refers to working beyond exhaustion from required overload and when demands provide little joy. Two antidotes can help cure burnout such as taking a vacation to restore our sanity and/or develop a plan that balances work, relationships, and play. A balance needs to exist between work and play. The things we want to do are equally as important as the things we have to do. The former promotes joy, growth, life satisfaction and our well-being and there is nothing wrong with well defined career goals. Time management can unleash more life satisfaction.
We can start by making the determination
about our life goals. What is our personal definition of success? What are our
retirement goals? Where do I want to be in five years, ten years and more? What
would I like to see myself doing? Perhaps we want to start a business or work
for a business that meets our interests. Exploring the outdoors may be one of
our life goals. We may want to live in a warmer climate or enjoy the four
seasons. Many options are available to us.
A balance check is in order to see if our
goals provide balance. We need to take care of our physical health such as our
weight, fitness, rest, eating and medical care. Living in an area without
suitable medical care may not be a suitable option. Are we going to meet our
personal needs? Do we have time or the availability to take care of our
spiritual and character development, emotional health or acquire the
possessions we want. Do we have an adequate amount of family, friends and
groups we need to aspire to meet our personal needs? Are we meeting our
recreational and professional needs? Some communities may not have a lot of
employment opportunities. Since I enjoy spending time in the woods, a community like Washington, D.C. may not
work for me. Too much concrete and not enough trees.
A five-year plan may give us peace if there
is preparation. The plan can contain specific goals that are achievable. The
plan can consist of the goals, what we can do to achieve the goals, starting
dates, and an evaluation process. Did we reach our goals and how did we do? The
plan can be broken down to weeks and months. It is also recommended to prepare
a daily to do list (Schiraldi, 1999). I prepare my to do list for the next day
before I turn in for the evening.
Other suggestions include prioritizing. The
foundation of time management is prioritizing, instead of trying to do
everything at once, what is the most important task. We can consider what items
will make the most impact. We can rank our to do list by order of importance.
Perhaps we have been stressed so we may need to move that walk in the woods to
the front of the list.
Another thing we need to avoid is
multitasking. Women had to do that all the time when they were taking care of
their homes and children. The women who also had to work outside of the home
had a near impossible feat concerning getting things that needed to be accomplished.
Multitasking is many women have had to do. I had two children and had to work
outside the home so I can definitely relate. Research has shown that humans are
not good at multitasking. Every time we switch tasks our brain has to refocus.
We need to eliminate distractions and set
boundaries. I am a writer and when I am in a flow the phone ringing can throw
off my concentration. If we can, turn off our phones. Setting boundaries may be
a little more difficult but if we can, do so. We need to put limits on how much
people can call us and not be available 24/7. We need our down times. It may also
be useful to get the hardest tasks done first or when we are at our best.
Morning may be the best time for some of us and not for others. Set a schedule
that is in our best interest.
Time management can be crucial when we need
to take care of ourselves physically and
emotionally. Dealing with unresolved trauma calls for time to meditate,
do relaxation techniques and enjoy pleasurable activities. We definitely need
to find a balance between work and play. Many of us also find the need to feel
productive and discover our life purpose.
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